Harry
Tash Jayasinghe
Cibbuano10 Tips for Approaching Women
December 23rd 2007 17:43
Read the article!
Some highlights:
"2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport."
Who is approaching women without smiling? What, are you trying to channel a Clint Eastwood persona, hard as nails and able to walk in the desert for 100s of miles? Smile, you inglorious bastard!
"6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this."
Confident, casual eye contact, playful eye contact, these are all good things. I've known guys - computer guys, usually - that take this kind of advice as a boolean state. Smile - ON, eye contact - ON.
The problem is that they're giving the 'I'm so pervertedly obsessed with you' stare, instead of a deep, searching gaze.
My own advice would be: don't approach women when you think it'd be a great idea. I've known women that have been hit on by employees, by employers, at the bar, outside of the bar, in cafes, in libraries, on buses, on the street... and so weite.
Basically, wherever there are women, there are men to hit on them (with the exception of a women's prison, i suppose), and women have learned to steel themselves by ignoring men. Why don't you just give them a break?
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The problem is that they're giving the 'I'm so pervertedly obsessed with you' stare, instead of a deep, searching gaze.
...creepy when it happens to you, but hilarious when it happens to someone else. *chuckles*
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The problem is that they're giving the 'I'm so pervertedly obsessed with you' stare, instead of a deep, searching gaze.
Hahahaa...those are the one's who haven't...oh I better not continue....
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