Asian guy needs to talk tonight
January 2nd 2009 07:41
This depressing ad was placed in Gumtree Casual Encounters by an asian guy who looks like he might be on his last thread.
People get into complicated relationships sometimes, or without preparation, and find themselves experiencing misery from a relationship that should give them joy. Perhaps this gentleman is in that situation, where he and his wife have drifted so far apart that they can't possibly communicate.
He stresses that it's not sexual:
Everyone should have someone to talk to, that's true... but this ad rings a little false. If he just wants to talk, why did he write his weight and that he looks young? What's the purpose of that? Why only with a girl?
Unsuprisingly, after living in China, I heard about encounters like this, several times, where a girl meets a guy that's in a tense relationship, professes to need someone to talk to. They sleep together and the guy goes back to his girlfriend happily. The girls that I knew, the ones that thought they were 'helping' him, felt used and discarded, which, honestly, they were.
Posting in Gumtree Casual Encounters is unlikely to be a good place to find someone to talk to...
"I am a married asian guy, 162cm/60kg
I am 30yo, but people said that i am look younger than my age.
I am very unhappy since I got married.
I am sick already with my wife behaviour.
I need to talk with someone tonight,
I prefer a girl (any age any nationality)"
I am 30yo, but people said that i am look younger than my age.
I am very unhappy since I got married.
I am sick already with my wife behaviour.
I need to talk with someone tonight,
I prefer a girl (any age any nationality)"
He stresses that it's not sexual:
"I just need someone to talk, that's it!"
Everyone should have someone to talk to, that's true... but this ad rings a little false. If he just wants to talk, why did he write his weight and that he looks young? What's the purpose of that? Why only with a girl?
Unsuprisingly, after living in China, I heard about encounters like this, several times, where a girl meets a guy that's in a tense relationship, professes to need someone to talk to. They sleep together and the guy goes back to his girlfriend happily. The girls that I knew, the ones that thought they were 'helping' him, felt used and discarded, which, honestly, they were.
Posting in Gumtree Casual Encounters is unlikely to be a good place to find someone to talk to...
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Comment by Paul
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Comment by The Rusty Can
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Comment by Sara Dobson
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Its bizzare the way some people go about finding casual sex. I wonder if any women are sucked in by this?
Maybe they are hoping to find one of those women that want to rescue a man.
Comment by Anonymous