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CibbuanoHow to be a Chick Magnet
August 31st 2006 00:04
I just heard the “chick magnet” term used recently. It’s such an 80’s term. Whenever I think ‘chick magnet” my mind always wonders to that Top Gun scene where Maverick and Goose are playing beach volleyball. Damn, if only I could have know then what I know now about Tom Cruise. Nevertheless, since crazy Tom has had his fair share of media attention in the last few days, its time to ponder, what is it that defines a chick magnet?
The first step to becoming a chick magnet is presentation. First impressions aren’t the be all and end all. However, how you present yourself may determine whether you get noticed and without getting noticed you’ll never get your foot in the door. There is no need to get a Beckham inspired wardrobe, a few sharp items that suit your style are all that are needed. The key to looking presentable is putting aside some time to getting yourself properly prepared. The half an hour shower, shave and cloth routine is just begging for a wardrobe malfunction. Take an additional half an hour and make sure your outfit is clean, fresh and looking hot. Try a couple different shirts, style your hair and walk out the front door feeling confident that you are looking your best.
When you’re dressed the part, the next step to attracting chick attention is to walk the part. Keep an upright posture, chin up and stand tall. Stride like Puff Daddy through a pimp party. A strong gait exudes confidence and there is nothing sexier. The line between confidence and arrogance is marginal, but when it comes to sex appeal the two are at opposite sides of the ring. Arrogance is characterized by self-centredness. Basically you’ll come across as though you think the world follows your orbit. A confident person is aware and comfortable with their self worth but doesn’t feel the need to incessantly talk about themselves or relate every conversation to their own lives. A touch of cockiness isn’t a problem. The main importance to being a chick magnet is the ability to have fun and infect the people around you with a good dose of fun.
A chick magnet is an optimistic kind of guy. I’d say they even exhibit signs of indifference. You’ve got to be able to wear your heart on your sleeve and not be too concerned with the opinion of others. A chick magnet doesn’t really care who likes them. They’ve got few qualms with strike up random conversations and enjoy meeting new people. They’re completely happy and at ease with themselves and their own success. An adventurous spirit is another big factor. A chick magnet takes rejection in their stride. The paradox is that a chick magnet rarely gets rejected. Nevertheless, the life of a chick magnet doesn’t revolve around women. They are their own person and if should a perfect woman come around, that’s the icing on the cake.
The first step to becoming a chick magnet is presentation. First impressions aren’t the be all and end all. However, how you present yourself may determine whether you get noticed and without getting noticed you’ll never get your foot in the door. There is no need to get a Beckham inspired wardrobe, a few sharp items that suit your style are all that are needed. The key to looking presentable is putting aside some time to getting yourself properly prepared. The half an hour shower, shave and cloth routine is just begging for a wardrobe malfunction. Take an additional half an hour and make sure your outfit is clean, fresh and looking hot. Try a couple different shirts, style your hair and walk out the front door feeling confident that you are looking your best.
When you’re dressed the part, the next step to attracting chick attention is to walk the part. Keep an upright posture, chin up and stand tall. Stride like Puff Daddy through a pimp party. A strong gait exudes confidence and there is nothing sexier. The line between confidence and arrogance is marginal, but when it comes to sex appeal the two are at opposite sides of the ring. Arrogance is characterized by self-centredness. Basically you’ll come across as though you think the world follows your orbit. A confident person is aware and comfortable with their self worth but doesn’t feel the need to incessantly talk about themselves or relate every conversation to their own lives. A touch of cockiness isn’t a problem. The main importance to being a chick magnet is the ability to have fun and infect the people around you with a good dose of fun.
A chick magnet is an optimistic kind of guy. I’d say they even exhibit signs of indifference. You’ve got to be able to wear your heart on your sleeve and not be too concerned with the opinion of others. A chick magnet doesn’t really care who likes them. They’ve got few qualms with strike up random conversations and enjoy meeting new people. They’re completely happy and at ease with themselves and their own success. An adventurous spirit is another big factor. A chick magnet takes rejection in their stride. The paradox is that a chick magnet rarely gets rejected. Nevertheless, the life of a chick magnet doesn’t revolve around women. They are their own person and if should a perfect woman come around, that’s the icing on the cake.
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Comment by Dan
Taking care of yourself is also a plus for the ladies. But taking 30 mins to make sure your clothes are fresh and clean? A guycan be metrosexual, but there are some things that are exclusively for women. One of them is taking so much time to get ready.
Yes I agree that theres nothing wrong with a guy who takes his time to get ready, but not THAT much time.
I take quite long to get ready, possibly an hour... This includes, shower, shave, picking clothese, ironing them just right. In a way, I do all the things you prescribe but probably don't take as long.
It just sucks im still not a chick magnet haha. Fair enough, I could be a little more confident haha.
Takecare and peace out...
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Comment by Dan
The problem I have with chick magnets (other than being incredibly jealous of them) is the fact that the bulk of them are absolute jerks.
I guess the reason for this is that jerks like to prey on women, so they purposely put on an act and take up all the qualities that women like. The fecad never lasts, but initially these sort of guys are the perfect man in a woman's eyes.
This is opposed to the genuine guy who trully be's himself. And as we all, no one is perfect. Therefore, the genuine guy will never be perfect, yet he is still a good man.
Of course women are such perfectionists, hence why nice guys finish last.
LoL sorry Ruth, I can be so damn depressing to read right? haha.
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$1,000,000 ideas
i do all that goodness you talk about but im still single.
maybe im ugly but no one has ever had the guts to tell me
-threethumbs