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CibbuanoHow to Create An Online Profile
May 5th 2006 01:30
The popularity of sites like Myspace, the numerous dating sites and public forums are booming and more people are making friends or meeting partners via the internet.
First impressions count and one of the most important first impressions you can make online is with your public profile. Your profile is what can highlight you from the masses, so its worthwhile putting a bit of thought and effort into your self advertisement. I’ve visited a few online dating websites and have checkout the profiles. These are some tips I’ve compiled from viewing some of the more successful profiles.
Firstly, always remember who you audience is and write appropriately. Try not to be too superficial, it give the impression you’re shallow. Definitely express what characteristics you find attractive, but try not to go over board. Initially, you want to grab some attention and meet a few people. You can always get to know respondents better later down the track and figure out if you’ve got an attraction going.
The trickiest thing about writing an online profile is sounding original. Let’s be honest, everyone can be smart, funny, kind, generous and motivated.
Whilst these adjective might sum you up perfectly, the truth is they’re used to describe the other 95% of online profiles as well. There’s no need to describe yourself with over exhausted adjectives. Just assume everyone thinks you’re funny, honest and a blast to be around. Better yet get the message across with some creative descriptions. Be specific and single out the qualities that distinguish you from any other profile.
Just like there are a bunch of adjectives to avoid, there are also a bunch of activities which desperate single seems to indulge in. Movies… music… catching up with friends… traveling… going to bars… getting to the beach… running… yawn! Unless, you are an uber fanatic of any generic activity don’t waste the space. Again the key is originality. Don’t just list the things you like doing, pick a few things you’re really passionate about and write about them. What sort of movies do you like, what was you’re favourite movie and why. Where is the one place in the world you’d really like to visit. Who do you admire. These sort of responses reveal more of your character and let the reader get to know you a little better.
Once you’ve conquered a great description of yourself, its now time to elaborate on what you’re seeking in a partner. Like I said earlier, try not to be too judgmental and as I’ve been stressing, lose the ho-hum clichés. We’re all seeking an honest, kind hearted soulmate. Think about some of the quirkier things that might attract readers. Use the activities you enjoy doing with your dates for inspiration.
Be specific whether it be adventure sports, watching cult tv classics, hiking through Bolivia or campaigning for veganism, being specific is a great way to attract the type of people you’ll likely to connect with. You don’t need to be extremist and start ranting about your beliefs. A short mention of topics that interest you is all that is needed to spark an interest by like-minded individuals.
Finally, there is a fine art to balancing self-deprecation and self-admiration. A really negative profile is as much of a turn off as an overly braggish profile. Both scream, “I’ve got issues.” This then leads to the conclusion that the person is likely to be high maintenance which is never desirable. Stay upbeat and personable. People don’t need to know about your horrendous body odour, although you might want to get that checkout before you meet them. Don’t lie. If you’re not 6’3” with curves like a racetrack and legs up to your armpits, don’t pretend that’s how you look. Instead focus on your good points and disregard the negatives. Nobody is perfect, so don’t feel you need to be ab fab.
Firstly, always remember who you audience is and write appropriately. Try not to be too superficial, it give the impression you’re shallow. Definitely express what characteristics you find attractive, but try not to go over board. Initially, you want to grab some attention and meet a few people. You can always get to know respondents better later down the track and figure out if you’ve got an attraction going.
The trickiest thing about writing an online profile is sounding original. Let’s be honest, everyone can be smart, funny, kind, generous and motivated.
Just like there are a bunch of adjectives to avoid, there are also a bunch of activities which desperate single seems to indulge in. Movies… music… catching up with friends… traveling… going to bars… getting to the beach… running… yawn! Unless, you are an uber fanatic of any generic activity don’t waste the space. Again the key is originality. Don’t just list the things you like doing, pick a few things you’re really passionate about and write about them. What sort of movies do you like, what was you’re favourite movie and why. Where is the one place in the world you’d really like to visit. Who do you admire. These sort of responses reveal more of your character and let the reader get to know you a little better.
Once you’ve conquered a great description of yourself, its now time to elaborate on what you’re seeking in a partner. Like I said earlier, try not to be too judgmental and as I’ve been stressing, lose the ho-hum clichés. We’re all seeking an honest, kind hearted soulmate. Think about some of the quirkier things that might attract readers. Use the activities you enjoy doing with your dates for inspiration.
Finally, there is a fine art to balancing self-deprecation and self-admiration. A really negative profile is as much of a turn off as an overly braggish profile. Both scream, “I’ve got issues.” This then leads to the conclusion that the person is likely to be high maintenance which is never desirable. Stay upbeat and personable. People don’t need to know about your horrendous body odour, although you might want to get that checkout before you meet them. Don’t lie. If you’re not 6’3” with curves like a racetrack and legs up to your armpits, don’t pretend that’s how you look. Instead focus on your good points and disregard the negatives. Nobody is perfect, so don’t feel you need to be ab fab.
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