Harry
CibbuanoMommy My Butt Hurts…
May 29th 2006 01:04
But I’m still a virgin!
So I was reading this book review of Naomi Wolf’s latest publication on the SMH. This is an extract from the article,
Most disturbing, perhaps, is her discovery that the greatest, and growing, health problem for young women at some college clinics is anal fissures.
"These girls were getting drunk and having anal sex with strangers on Saturday night. Why? … Because that is the premium kind of sex that pornography is representing right now. Like when you're bored of vanilla sex you go to anal sex. With strangers. Which seems kind of extreme to someone of my generation."
It is a problem she has found even on a conservative campus in Salt Lake City, Utah. She says girls there all want to be virgins and they think it is not real sex.
I thought this was one of the most absurd and funniest things I have heard in a while. Firstly, on this virginity issue, I guess it all boils down to your personal definition of virginity. My personal opinion is that I have a hard time labeling an anal sex whore as a virgin. In my mind, virginity is based on intimate carnal knowledge more than a “penis in vagina” thing. It intrigues me to think what sort of screwed up values and sex education classes are being taught to the youth of Utah for them to even think that “anal sex is not real sex.” Within the Western world, due to cultural liberation and pop culture, people have already lost a portion of their virginity before they even have their first sexual experience, for which I’m going to coin the term devirginifcation. Virginity has somewhat lost its significance in the modern world. I don’t think this devirginification of society is a bad thing. Knowledge is power, it’s a good thing that people know about issues like contraception, STDs, bodily fluids, what genitals look like, etc before they jump in the sack and get a nasty surprise. Actually, I believe the chances of someone having a positive memory of their first sexual encounter is greatly improved if they have some sort of pre-educational exposure.
Its time for bed, so I'll continue my rant tomorrow.
1. L Pryor, Smells Like Teen Spirit But Skanky Sex is Next on the List SMH May 27, 2006
So I was reading this book review of Naomi Wolf’s latest publication on the SMH. This is an extract from the article,
Most disturbing, perhaps, is her discovery that the greatest, and growing, health problem for young women at some college clinics is anal fissures.
"These girls were getting drunk and having anal sex with strangers on Saturday night. Why? … Because that is the premium kind of sex that pornography is representing right now. Like when you're bored of vanilla sex you go to anal sex. With strangers. Which seems kind of extreme to someone of my generation."
I thought this was one of the most absurd and funniest things I have heard in a while. Firstly, on this virginity issue, I guess it all boils down to your personal definition of virginity. My personal opinion is that I have a hard time labeling an anal sex whore as a virgin. In my mind, virginity is based on intimate carnal knowledge more than a “penis in vagina” thing. It intrigues me to think what sort of screwed up values and sex education classes are being taught to the youth of Utah for them to even think that “anal sex is not real sex.” Within the Western world, due to cultural liberation and pop culture, people have already lost a portion of their virginity before they even have their first sexual experience, for which I’m going to coin the term devirginifcation. Virginity has somewhat lost its significance in the modern world. I don’t think this devirginification of society is a bad thing. Knowledge is power, it’s a good thing that people know about issues like contraception, STDs, bodily fluids, what genitals look like, etc before they jump in the sack and get a nasty surprise. Actually, I believe the chances of someone having a positive memory of their first sexual encounter is greatly improved if they have some sort of pre-educational exposure.
Its time for bed, so I'll continue my rant tomorrow.
1. L Pryor, Smells Like Teen Spirit But Skanky Sex is Next on the List SMH May 27, 2006
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