Harry
CibbuanoYou’ve Cheated Now What..?
May 19th 2006 02:50
If a cheating partner decides not to tell their partner of an affair they have to really assess whether they can live with the lie. In the short term it is easy to brush of a short fling, but in the long term it is a secret that can really eat at your conscience. Potentially, this is a secret you will have to carry for the rest of your life. Once you’ve decided not to tell a partner, you have really committed yourself to that point of no return. A confession down the track is not going to be any easier and it reflects the nasty qualities of an untrustworthy partner. I could only imagine that keeping such a secret would turn anyone into a paranoid nut and possibly screw with the relationship anyway. What if the affair was somehow discovered by your partner? If you’re capable of keeping something like this a secret maybe your partner has a similar dark secret? The mind boggles with what the weight of a secret affair will do to a cheater and their relationship. That said, I guess there are circumstances where ignorance is bliss. The decision to tell or not to tell is a tough one that can’t be taken lightly.
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Comment by Anonymous
Im in the same boat as we speak im not gonna bite the bullet yet, i'm giving it a week or so but my boyfriend isn't very outgoing and i've only hooked up with others when im completely drunk, therefore i'm not sure if i should feel bad as he is the one that blew me off for coming to the party which he was invited to and was suppose to be my date. As you can see my relationship is rocky and i hope it goes smoothly over the speed bumps but infidelity really hurts your concience. Its not a great feeling, but if you didnt mean to i dont think this little secret would hurt to keep quiet.